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Affectionate husband and wife live in the six rules

Friday, May 28th, 2010

Love is a pre-marriage, love of men and women, that the two conditions Yiyi, a moment to leave the scene, is really very wonderful.

1, often recalled his love: love is the pre-marriage, love of men and women, that the two conditions Yiyi, a moment to leave the scene, is really very wonderful. After marriage, often recalled his pre-marriage love scene, the couple will be able to arouse feelings of sympathy, and an increase in the memories of the romantic feelings and more longing for the future, thus enhancing the feelings of husband and wife.

2, re-arrangement “honeymoon”: marriage, honeymoon, husband and wife is the most concentrated period of feelings. At that time, the two put aside all the troubles, full access to surpass honey love the world, enjoy the “Garden of Eden” Music. After marriage, if we can make use of holidays each year to arrange a time ranging from a “honeymoon”, such as to a remote tourism, recycling both love small world and relive old dream, will be able to continue to set off waves in love, so that husband and wife ever stronger feelings .

3, to celebrate the festival to commemorate: wedding anniversary, the other birthday, anniversary, etc. De Ding Qing is the husband and wife both love the history of important day. By then, take the appropriate form, be Memorial, from which both sides feel the other side have their own deep love, which is the consolidation of great husband and wife.

4, compensation for past debt situation: a lot of couples get married because of conditions, failed to take an ideal form of return on each other’s love, and who do not spend their honeymoon, has failed to give love to buy a decent gift and so on. Several years later, when conditions are ripe, the completion of these had not tried to remember, in order to repay past debts owed by the situation, it will cause the other side feel that you are a heavy situation, passionate people who love you, love will be doubled , such as gay marriage to a lot of love to buy gold jewelry, and many have passed notched married couples color and so on.

5, learn to please the lover: Some men and women, pre-marital and other appointments, the total should try to please the other side, but after marriage will no longer care about each other about their feelings. This approach will damage the couple’s feelings. Therefore, marriage, lesbian also, as always, gentle, caring concern for her husband; and gay should be carefully savor his wife’s feelings, not only to care for his wife always considerate, but also to please his wife learn some skills, such as the purchase of clothing for her high-ginseng, to help her plan the development of beauty, humor and so on from time to time to point.

6, a record point a pleasant surprise: an unexpected surprise to make the other side often played the feelings of “doping” role. Therefore, the creation of a pleasant surprise that, for enhancing the feelings of a very good husband and wife. Such as telling the other side, he (she) in the remote access to meet their loved ones for the other side would like to get to buy the same goods, for the creation of a husband and wife are not ready but the other very popular activities and so on, can make a pleasant surprise oil But Health, which burst out in the pleasant surprises in the strong feelings of flowers, set off jubilant love heat.

33 things women should do for your men

Friday, May 28th, 2010

Sometimes, I suddenly feel a woman is a bit less than the? Flying of speech, are men of the post for a woman what to do, men do the number of how many points is a good man. In terms of their hearts, modern men are tired enough, they bear a greater work pressure, more family responsibilities, more economic burden, even in time of distress, were more looked down upon. I think that sometimes women are not the men do?

1, before he went to work, help him to wear jackets;

2, his pre-mission and give him a kiss;

3, he went to a friend Prior to that, asked him to come back as soon as possible;

4, bad weather to remember him;

5, more than the normal time make a phone call did not come back at ease, and do not use too much attention to the tone of accusation;

6, his friend to come home, to his friends to kind;

7, in front of his friends or the public before giving him a little face;

8, in and his acquaintances, including his colleagues, friends, family talk, appropriate to talk about his benefits;

9, in any field Ho occasions, before any person, please do not say that he stingy;

10, the time to buy things, I remember the wallet in his custody temporarily so, and let him pay every time;

11, he sometimes light a cigarette smoking, especially with friends, do not mind too much;

12, he sometimes drank a little beer, especially when friends and together, will not be too against it;

13, he has to take a look at four to see the last World Cup, should be given some support, he is once every four years, you have the opportunity at any time;

14 he finishes his work, remember to say “You come back,” so he can have a sense of home;

15, his headaches, they can help him head massage, no more than a good way to do more is just a psychological comfort.

16, when his back pain, to help him beat back a while, you definitely better than 10 minutes to knock him to the outside knocking 1 hour.

17, send text messages to parents when the phone call, do not forget to give him a phone call parents Xinhua clockwork message of greetings to you gently.

18, to their parents to buy things when, I remember that he is also a parent.

19, to honor their parents do care about them, we should also honor those who gave him a parents avoid partiality.

20, please remember that he and his parents birthday.

21, in his or birthday when his parents, remember to express your wishes, if there is no time to not necessarily have to be gifts, not necessarily have to buy expensive gifts, gifts, the so-called friendship ceremony light weight.

22, he did not shopping, you can make some small temper, but do not force him to must always remember where necessary, let him first, and therefore do not feel wronged and act rashly, otherwise well be self-defeating.

23, he was very depressed, upset, they can let him roar like you, but later let him sincere apology to you.

24, frustrated when he can take his mind for a while will help him regain confidence and ambition.

25, his time of unemployment, and told him blessing in disguise, how can we know the non-fu?

26, he was pleased when, to help him over a glass of wine.

27, his frustration when he points to a cigarette.

28, when he arrived when the first one to help him wash.

29, when two out of fun to play a day when the first Caesar Johnson and let him carry you upstairs.

30, helped him ready to wear clothes morning.

31, in the appropriate forum to demonstrate to you what he bought clothes or gifts.

32, when a harmonious atmosphere, helped him shave a beard.

33, you can let him cook, so that he can help you send coolies to do things so that he can help you to the cleaners when cleaning the house, but the clothes you have to help him wash.

Practical tips to reduce the risk of divorce

Friday, May 28th, 2010

The ordinary course of events, marriage is in order from the, or even binding it to do? But of a marriage, by happy gradually become rancid, a mass of bruises after the split, no matter how hard to see, not what is a good thing.

The early days, the military academy, the first three years students are underground work, it seems calm. However, the approach of graduation, a team No. people, several of the 10 sudden lovers. I did not engage in to understand that they are on how to consort.

After graduation, the bad news one after another, until now, the original Mandarin has been running out. Speaking of divorce, a buddy, then look no choice: like stripping the layers of skin!

That being the case, why should the first place! Married people are always full of reverie, that they can then live a happy life, usually no one concept at this point in time after a period of time will be sitting in a lawyer office, and had to die so that their people have to live for division of property.

Divorce can not be 100 percent prevention, but we can still take measures to avoid divorce as much as possible nightmare from happening. If you have a divorce, it would not be frustrated, you can also use the following method of operation of the future of marriage. This method seems to be simple and 10, it is actually very useful, you do not want to suffer the pain of divorce, then, let some of your marriage a long time, it should be no problem.

1. Love two years of marriage

The researchers said that if a pair of lovers in love time about two years and 4 months (this is the love of the average time) about to get married, their divorce will be a relatively low probability. And met and married in haste after the delay in the wedding hall of the people into a higher risk of divorce. U.S. expert Ted marriage. Harston, said: “the longest delay marriage people the possibility of breaking up the greatest.”

2. Shenxing

Now, pre-marital cohabitation unprecedented popularity, of course you can also find a person had been but the researchers did not support pre-marital cohabitation, because they found that pre-marital cohabitation of people at high risk of divorce.

3. Grew up a little longer to marry

Statistics show that 25-year-old after the marriage, the probability of greater long-term marriage.

4. Premarital important issues agreed upon

You both want the number of children? How will you finance? In the honeymoon before the discussion of these issues is very important. Premarital education or pre-marital advice may help you solve this problem. Many studies have shown that after this procedure for their spouses have higher marital satisfaction and greater sense of responsibility.

5. Can quarrel, but do not upgrade into a “world war”

To stop the mouth is an integral part of the relationship between husband and wife, stopped the mouth and argue their own will not lead to divorce. However, you should pay attention to controversial. Researchers Gottman and Levenson said they can observe a couple argue in the negative way, as well as the degree of constructive and positive communication to predict whether or not divorce the two. Argument to avoid: criticism, contempt, and refused to over-protect themselves. Learn how to use humor and the kind words ease the heated debate.

6. Play

Yes, you both need to have their own personal interests and hobbies. However, too much emphasis on self-may lead to the separation of life, or a gradual separation. Like her husband have to play golf every Saturday, his wife go swimming every Saturday. Adopted by the Institute participate in your favorite activities are reunited together. Affectionate look to find the time is also important, although it appears that you have not separated from one minute. Affectionate way, such as massage and embrace, which makes you feel more intimate.

7. To share housework

Forwarders most home side, while the other is lazy leisure, this is a divorce the “secret.”


Sometimes we will be the most rude way people treat their own favorite, did not realize that their own. Check it yourself: “I take it on friends, acquaintances, colleagues and even strangers than for their other half is better?” Regular mutual recognition; remember to say “please” and “Thank you” rather than issue an order or over garrulous .

9. With the problems, we should solve the problem

One of them whether you feel depressed? Whether there is drug abuse problems? Have alcohol problems? One of the parties interested in affair? If you have or you do not want to approach these issues resolved, the risk of divorce will be greatly increased. Through advisory services and other ways to solve these problems can reduce your risk of divorce.

10. And want to get married marry

This seems to be obvious, but many people did not. If you need to beg, sweet deceive, and even before the ultimatum issued by the marriage, then you should be aware that he or she probably did not want to marry. If you wear a ring in the moment you think things will eventually change, then you are wrong. Do not trouble to themselves. Or to find a like you, hope that those who entered the marriage hall to live with it.

10 warm details to maintain the marriage

Friday, May 28th, 2010

1. In the morning before work to help him organize what ties him one stroke stroke is not obedient hair. Tiny details of the men will have the same feeling soft and warm, when the details become a habit, he will be more peace of mind, you can not do will be more

2. He was fit again to buy good quality underwear. This day, he will have a delicate sense of good: This is my wife and I bought it! He thought would be derailed it?

3. Remember that each of the special day, and to celebrate with him. It does not have to do men and women to celebrate the way, would be more intimate and romantic, nor will he be able to feel more warmth of love.

4. That he’s favorite dishes, and the courage to learn and practice. Although the “seize the man’s stomach equal to seize the hearts of men” had a little gas, but it really works. He knows the taste, he likes to do the dishes, or learn to do the dishes he likes, even if only once in a blue moon, he will be deeply felt your love.

5.”Dear hard” as a pet phrase. Be it home from work, or repair electrical, water, do not forget to hug him and say “Dear tough.”

6.He would like to be alone, quietly walked away. It is said that men have a “cave”, when they have problems, accustomed to being alone with his thoughts quiet sort, this time, do not go to express your concern, go away quietly, he would appreciate your consideration and understanding.

7. Sure that he has trouble, Do not make plans for him. Unless he made a formal demand, then you should not hurry to solve problems for him. To believe that he will be able to handle, otherwise he would feel deeply hurt, because you clearly express no confidence in his ability.

8. So that he does not mind pulling your hair. In the face of love, does not require any Weishi, you will work together through a long life, you will have to give him the white hair, what would he hide it and can not be entrusted to him?

9,.Dress himself and his dress. So you always have friends in the eyes of a pair of Biren. You do not fear him forever young and handsome, because you do not lose self-confidence – their lack of confidence in women, how other people may have to give a sense of security?

10. Love him and say so. And the same, regardless of the number of occasions. He is always not to question closely, “I love” On the contrary, we should always remember to love them, he said.

Can marriage prove love?

Friday, May 28th, 2010

This love story is said to have since ancient times, although very mysterious, but it is a permanent topic. It seems that love itself is eternal. Everyone is talking about love, but who can say clearly what exactly is love? Hearts may be just a dream.

It is a materialistic age, do not know if there is no such thing as love, bring love, may have been an ancient dream. Love is said to allow a man and a woman to be affiliated, is said to love can love life of two people the same heart.

There is no denying that love is a strong belief, so that those who believe that believe that the love of justice and a better world, as never put out the fire bright, you can always illuminate the life and soul.

Love is so beautiful, what look like? What to do in order to have real love? Love, as if to find the feeling of love. Sexual behavior, it seems to represent the expression of love. Who has a blink of an eye, the situation has been far had gone into love.

Encounter love, lost love, what could prove the existence of love? Do not know who it is, marriage can prove the existence of love. People love after marriage, if you can Bainianhaohe, so that love everlasting and unchanging.

In the past, arranged marriages are the parents, prior to the marriage, two people have not even met, simply do not know, there is no love at all. Is not married because of love, marriage and love is not to exist.

In today’s society, young men and women are free to love, but he did not know how to prove the existence of love. They know that marriage is not always the touchstone of love, but there was no better choice, no choice but to say: I love, get married on it!

Marriage, divorce may not think of the possibility that the marriage will be able to have been the old, will never be separated. However, things can not predict the future, no one knows the future will not divorce. San marriage, love does not exist, or did not exist.

Love is in love with a man, love his presence, his love and his co-exist. Shenwaizhiwu money, and love are not necessarily linked. Even love can not prove that. Marriage is a form of life, can not prove the existence of love. The only way to prove that love is love of one’s heart.

Love a person, if that person has not changed, you love his heart would not change. That is true love, the love life of two people can do the same heart.

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